I just finished reading Landline by Rainbow Rowell today (review will be coming soon), and it got me thinking about just how much an amazing author can make me FEEL!Landline had me running the whole gamut of emotions and it got me thinking about them. I honestly think that I often feel more from reading than I do from watching TV - heck, sometimes more than I do in real life (at least I feel more emotions packed into a short amount of time than I do on a typical day). So. Many. Feels. (The pictures are my kiddos.) Laughter - I love a book that can make me laugh out loud. With Landline, I laughed often at the witty dialogue (and at the main character's inner thoughts, which were often just incredibly funny). Another recent read that had me laughing and smiling throughout was Maybe Someday By Colleen Hoover. Now, neither of these books are comedies - my husband heard me laughing so often at Maybe Someday that he had to ask what the book was about. To which, I sheepishly responded, "Well, there's this girl who just found out her boyfriend is cheating on her ... " Cue perplexed look from my husband. What, that doesn't sound hysterical?
Anger -Have you ever read a book where a character made you so angry that you just wanted to strangle them? I have. Maybe it's just because they did something so incredibly stupid that I wanted to smack some sense into them. Or there have been times when someone treated a character that I had come to love so miserably that I just wanted to scream. Sometimes anger at a book makes it better because it means you care, and sometimes you just get angry at a character's actions and it ruins the book for you. I remember when I read Everything You Know by Mary Beth Bass and I was so aggravated with the love interest. He was just a jerk! He pretty much spent the whole book pressuring the main character to have sex with him and then acting like an immature moron when she said she wasn't ready (it was a case of instalove too, so it's not like they'd been together long). I really wanted to throw the book across the room!!! But then my Kindle would have broken, and I'd have had to move on to my next emotion ...
Tears - I'm a crier. I cry. A lot. Ask my husband. We get into a fight - I cry. Even when I try really hard not to. So I guess it should be no surprise that tears often fall when I'm reading. Sometimes it's just that my eyes tear up and I have to kind of blink a lot if I'm in public (had to do that a few times today while reading Landline at my son's violin lesson - his violin teacher might not have understood if I started bawling in the middle of Seitz Student Concerto #5 - maybe I could have claimed I was just really moved by the music?) Then there are those books that make me sob. The most extreme example of this that I can think of is Forbidden by Tabitha Suzuma. Seriously, when one of the main characters suffered a panic attack of sorts, I practically went through it with him - I was sobbing and near hyperventilation. I don't know how Suzuma got me to connect with her characters so deeply, but I was literally living through his emotions with him. It was a bit insane!
Love -Okay, it's not as if I'm saying that I actually fall in love when I read a book, but I certainly do often feel the physical effects of those swoon-worthy scenes (and I'm not just talking about the intimate scenes, though there are certainly some physical responses to those!). I often actually experience those tingles that come from first love, the heart-pounding intensity that comes from a moment stolen between the main couple I've been dying to see get together. And then there's the heartbreaking moments. The moments when the main character feels insecurity and pain over unrequited love. The moments where a couple I've come to love starts breaking apart at the seams, where a marriage starts to crumble. These moments sometimes make me cry. But they inevitably give me a very particular physical reaction - my chest tightens, and I get a sort of hollow ache that starts in my chest and radiates through my body. I literally ache for the characters. Is this just me? So, I'm curious - do you feel emotions this strongly when you read? Do you respond physically to the gut wrenching pain of the characters you read about? What are the emotions that hit you the hardest? Have I missed anything? I want to know!
all wonderful feels to feel in a book. I want them all. I also love when feeling compassion and understanding, the urge to just hug the characters and tell them it will be ok. Its hard to find books that make it all so real and extreme but they are out there. great discussion. My recent post Review: Say What You Will by Cammie McGovern
This post kind of makes me realize that very rarely do I feel a lot when reading a book. Either I'm really engaged or really bored or really annoyed. I guess I do often feel anger at certain dumb characters, but I think I've only cried during one or two books. Is that normal? I feel like a lot of people cry during books... I guess to counter that, I cry easily during movies. :/ My recent post WISHING FOR WEDNESDAY: June 18th, 2014
That's interesting because I think I often feel MORE when I read than when I watch a movie. Well, maybe not the crying - I definitely cry during movies too. But the stuff I wrote under the category of "Love" - I definitely feel like I feel that more in books than in movies. But I don't think you're the only one. I've read other people say that they rarely cry while reading books.
I probably don't feel as much emotions as you, Nicole, except for maybe anger at the characters for making dumb decisions or being jerks. I do sometimes get teary but it depends on the novel ... which is usually a contemporary. I cried too though when reading Forbidden. My recent post Review: Free to Fall by Lauren Miller
Cute! This is a really great post, and I've definitely experienced them all at least once when reading a book. It's great when a book can show you all of them though. My personal favorite is humor though, since I love to laugh :) My recent post Waiting on Wednesday [39]
I love to feel all of these emotions when I read too! If I can feel them all in one book, it's even better. Definitely agree with you about laughing, though - love it when a book makes me laugh!
Nice review! I'm so excited for this book. I absolutely adored Eleanor and Park and Fangirl. Rainbow Rowell really knows how to bring out the emotions. I cry, laugh, yell at, and throw my books I get so emotional. I get more emotional about them than I do about real life haha. My recent post Liebster Award
I do! Sometimes it feels like my chest will collapse from the feels. But you're also talking to a woman with extremely visceral reactions to tv shows. (example: The second to last episode of Teen Wolf season 3B I was crying on the phone with my best friend and just going 'nonononono' over and over again.)
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Yes, exactly!! It's an actual physical pain in your chest! Now I really want to watch Teen Wolf because I'm a sucker for stuff that makes me cry. I watched the first season of that show, but then we got rid of cable. I'll have to see if I can watch the old episodes somewhere.
I don't think a book has ever made me cry actual tears. Some have made me teary-eyed, but actual crying, no. I have laughed out loud on several occasions, and there have definitely been many smiles.
There seem to be two camps - those of us who are bowled over by our feelings when we read and those of us who aren't. It's really interesting to me and it makes me want to investigate more. Am I just more emotional in life? Is it something about reading? Emotion is what draws me into a story, so now I want to know what draws those of you in who don't get overwhelmed by the emotion!
I need to have a good story, an intricate world-building in which I can get lost, preferably fantasy, because anything can happen over there. I like the escape when I'm reading. It's all about escaping for me, but I don't show a lot of emotion when I read.
This is such an awesome post! I am generally a very skeptical reader - I start out with an eyebrow raised, but the more I like the book, the more I get invested in the characters, and then the emotions just get drawn out too! With some books, like TFIOS, the eyebrow just stays raised and I don't get super invested (blasphemous, I know), but with others (anything by Melina Marchetta!) I'll be wiping away tears or grinning like an idiot as I read. My recent post Fantasy Friday - Diversity in SFF
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This post kind of makes me realize that very rarely do I feel a lot when reading a book. Either I'm really engaged or really bored or really annoyed. I guess I do often feel anger at certain dumb characters, but I think I've only cried during one or two books. Is that normal? I feel like a lot of people cry during books... I guess to counter that, I cry easily during movies. :/
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I probably don't feel as much emotions as you, Nicole, except for maybe anger at the characters for making dumb decisions or being jerks. I do sometimes get teary but it depends on the novel ... which is usually a contemporary. I cried too though when reading Forbidden.
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This is a really great post, and I've definitely experienced them all at least once when reading a book. It's great when a book can show you all of them though. My personal favorite is humor though, since I love to laugh :)
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I'm glad I'm not the only one with the feels!!
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